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Happiness

Resolve the Conflict or Dissolve the Relationship

Dear Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. Completing my Diploma in Counselling Skills from Banjara Academy last year gave me a great feeling. I said to myself “Yeah, I am a counsellor now, I can solve anyone’s problem and I’ll be the savior for every one around”. But it didn’t take much time to understand [...]

Pleasure of Cycling

Dear Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. I came back from school, was depressed and sad about the way things are going on in life. We, a group of 6 have decided to start cycling to school from next month onwards. Now it’s the first week of the new month and I am the only [...]

Being Right or Being Happy

> Dear Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. When I wrote about being right or happy in my previous post, many of my readers were keen to know more about it. Here comes my thoughts and understandings on one of the key learning’s from my counselling course. “Do you want to be right or do [...]

Power of deciding our happiness.

>Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. “What is that, ultimately you want in life…???” When I asked this question to people I know from all walks of life, starting from a grade 5 student to as elderly as 95 yrs old. The final answer always lead to someting like this, “I want to be [...]

Change is the only changeless

Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. Every time I think about some change….I always remember 2 famous quotes I’ve come across. First one is “Everything changes, only change is changeless” don’t know who said this and the second one from Mahatma Gandhiji “Be the change you want to be”. Many a times we tend [...]

Counselor Chalisa…!!!

>Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. Hanuman Chalisa is a Hindi poem on Lord Hanuman written by Shri.Tulsidas, which is recited as a prayer by Hindus. The moment I came across an excellent poem on Counselors , I shared it with my DCS ( Diploma in Counseling Skills) classmates of Banjara Academy. I would [...]

Leadership through Physical Fitness

>Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. When I was doing my regular weekend long-run this morning, the thought stuck in my mind was, “Is there a relationship between Leadership and Physical Fitness…?”. From my few experiments and little experience I am fully convinced that, Yes there is a great relation between one’s Leadership Qualities [...]

Congruent Living

>Hello Friends, Welcome Anbusivam’s Blog Page. I am doing my DCS (Diploma in Counseling Skills) from Banjara Academy. Our teachers both Dr.Ali Khwaja and Raja Reddy are wonderful people. I really love and enjoy myself in this course with excellent classmates helping me to understand myself and others in a better way. As a part [...]

Motivation from Special Children

>Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. Last Friday I had a great opportunity to visit Spastic Society of Karnataka, which is a special school for children with special needs. It was a part of my Counseling course and I was not even aware of the meaning of Spastics till I go there to see [...]

Power of Association and Dissociation.

>Hello Friends, Welcome to Anbusivam’s Blog Page. Let’s do a quick experiment before reading further. Think of two situations from your past, one pleasant and another unpleasant. Carefully notice when you recall those incidents, wether you relive them or just recall them as an observer. If you’ve relive them, experience the same emotions and feelings [...]